March is my favorite month of the year and most of that has to do with the first day of the month, which is my birthday! Closely followed by my birthday begins the best sporting event of the year, March Madness! Well, this year I got to add something else pretty awesome to the month and that was a huge celebration that I got to be a part of, the DanceBlue Marathon!
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| My birthday started off with a early morning trip to Frank's Donuts to pick up some breakfast. Next we went to church at Southland before heading to lunch at Malone's. I opened some gifts and had a lemon Nothing Bundt Cake. Most of the day was spent hanging out at the DanceBlue Marathon and then we ended the night at Waffle House. My 35th birthday proved to be quite spectacular and I was glad to be surrounded by those that I love the most. Not only did I spend the whole day with my wife, kids, parents, siblings, and niece, but I also got to see lots of my co-workers and a lot of the kids I take care of and their families! |
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| They even asked me to hold one of the signs for the big countdown for the reveal of how much money they raised for the year. Clearly you can see that I was number 8. |
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| I was very happy to finally attend my first ever DanceBlue Marathon, but I was sad that I hadn't been a part of the previous ones. It is an awesome atmosphere and the students are dancing their hearts out there on the floor. Landon told me that he wanted to go up on stage to dance, but when I took him down to the floor he got scared and instead decided to get on my shoulders. The top right picture is of all the nurses that I work with in the clinic. The both right picture is the big reveal of money raised and it was 2,000,190.20! How awesome is that! A bunch of college students came together and raised money for kids that most of them had never met before so that they could help them during their battle with cancer. I am completely blown away by their love and compassion. It is truly amazing to see the ones that come into the clinic to play with the kids. It was an amazing experience and I can't wait to be even more involved with next year's marathon. |
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| The kids had a good time playing with their cousin Olivia. Olivia really loves Brinley and Landon. |
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| When I finally went back to work the Tuesday after my birthday they had decorated my computer space with notes and balloons. The also have a special basket of goodies that you can pick from. It has a variety of things, mostly king sized candy bars. Well, since I gave up sweets I decided to pick something besides candy and then it was perfect that it contained 35 pieces, my exact age. It was just meant to be. |
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UK Men's Basketball had their final home game, but it was a late one. It started at 9pm against the Tennessee Volunteers. We came out and played awesome for about the first 30 minutes of the game. We were actually ahead by seventeen points, but then the last 10 minutes of the game we fell apart. I couldn't believe it. What a sad way to end our home season. In fact, the only two games that we lost at home were the first and last ones. I was mad that we lost, but even more upset for another one of my patients that was able to go to the game. Coach Cal didn't come out to do his post game press conference so he wasn't able to get his basketball signed. That really made me sad.
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Against the kids will I made them get ready on a Saturday and head out to watch some Kentucky athletics. We started off by watching the women's tennis team compete against Aurburn. Then we headed over to Kentucky Proud Park to watch the men's baseball team in action against Oakland University. We were watching the game when Kentucky's player hit a grand slam and then followed that up with another Big Blue Bomb! Then the kids and I spent about an hour playing pitch and catch out on the grassy area behind 3rd base. |
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| For those of you that don't know, I love puzzles. They are so much fun for me. A nice challenge that makes you use your brain and then so satisfying when you finally get it put together. Well, for my birthday I got a couple of 2,000 piece puzzles. I decided to start this one because I thought that it would be easy to find most of the pieces because there was so many distinct pieces in this puzzle, appropriately named yard sale. Jennifer usually doesn't help with any of my puzzles anymore, but helped out quite a bit with this one. |
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The kids even got in on the yard sale puzzle. Then said it was too hard and got out one of their 100 piece puzzles to work on it. When every thing was said and done I calculated up the time it took to put together this 2,000 piece and it was right around 11 hours. I was really impressed with that time, but of course I always wonder what if we had just been a little bit faster. Maybe I will put it back in the box to try for another day.
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| Landon has recently been interested in going for runs. I have been happy to go with him whenever he asks even when it is getting dark and even getting a little chilly outside. On this night we even stopped and walked quite a bit of the time. When we made it home we had gone 2.43 miles in 28 minutes. Our family goal was to run a 5k this spring but our girls haven't been as interested in running. |
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I take a picture of the kids every morning that I drop them off for school. Then I turn it into a little video collage at the end of the year. Well, this was the picture that was taken on Friday, March 13th. This was the last day that the kids went to school because they closed in response to the COVID-19. I just hope this isn't there last day for this school year. Brinley was really bummed that school got called off because she wouldn't get to see her friends any more. Not quite sure that Landon even cared one way or the other.
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| If you are a big math person like myself then you have probably heard of PI day. 𝛑 is used in many mathematical equations and is usually rounded to 3.14, even though it goes on to infinity. Since 3.14 is the number most people know then it related to March 14th on the calendar, so therefore we have pi day. How else to celebrate than with actual pie! This year the kids helped by measuring all the ingredients for an apple pie. I also made what our family refers to as Tricia pies because Landon says that he doesn't like apple pie. A Tricia pie got its name from my cousin who introduced us to this delectable, yet simple to make pie. It is just cream cheese beaten with 1/3 cup sugar, then you fold in cool whip and put it in a graham cracker crust. |
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| We signed up and participated for the 3rd year in a row as our church packed a million meals for children in Haiti. It is quite an impressive undertaking and they have definitely worked out all the kinks because it runs so smoothly and effectively. Since both kids had been last year I asked them before heading back to the working area what jobs they wanted to do this year. Brinley said that she wanted to weigh the bags. Landon said that he wanted to use the scoop that you have to level off with a knife (vitamins). We rushed back and secured the spots the kids wanted and then picked a job right next to them. Jennifer scooped vegetables and I heat sealed all the packages. The kids actually did really well. I made them switch at one point so that they could have a little variety. They worked really hard for the full hour. I am so thankful that we were able to do this again. It is such a blessing to show these kids that not everyone has it as good as they do. These kids are excited to get this rice, protein, and veggie mixture to eat because otherwise they wouldn't get anything. Truly eye opening. |
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| This situation with the COVID-19 got crazy real fast. People absolutely started losing their mind and buying up all the toliet paper they could find. I just went to Meijer and the isle was almost bare and I refused to snatch up some to just hoard it away. Well, after going home Jennifer informed me that we are actually almost out of this now hot commodity. So, I headed over to our Costco and they had stacks of the stuff. One package should last us for the next six months. The biggest heartbreak for me was that instead of running around buying up toliet paper with the rest of the world I was supposed to be in Nashville at the SEC tournament watching my CATS play. Unfortunately, the tournament and all sports were cancelled. I understand the reasoning especially because I am in the healthcare field myself, but it still hurt to see seasons end so abruptly! |
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| March 15th is a pretty big day in our house. That's because on this date in the year 2005 I asked Jennifer to marry me. We were in New Orleans for spring break and I popped the question after eating beignets at Cafe du Monde. Every year that I can remember since then I have gotten up early and made beignets for her. The kids are excited about them too. I can't believe that it has been 15 years! |
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Most of you don't know because we didn't publicly say anything about it, but my little brother was possibly exposed to a COVID-19 patient at the hospital. The hospital at the time thought it was best for him to self-isolate for 14 days. This meant that he couldn't leave his house. Mostly his girlfriend or other friends would drop food off at his door. I decided to drop him off some of our pi day desserts. I also had the kids write him some notes. I dropped off the container, knocked and then got six feet away so that I could talk to my little brother face to face for the first time in a while. He completed his 14 days of isolation and has now gone back to fighting on the front lines.
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| I can't begin to describe how saddened I am with the cancelling of the SEC and NCAA tournament. As I mentioned earlier, March Madness is my absolute favorite time of the year. Opening weekend with all 64 teams playing their hearts out in a win or go home situation is what makes it the best sporting event. Filling out a bracket and then cheering for some random team that you know nothing about only to then realize that you didn't even pick them to win is what makes it so much fun. This March will go down in infamy as March Sadness. I am just sad because we never get to know what might have been. There was no clear cut runaway in college basketball this year so I feel that there would have been so many upsets all throughout the tournament. I am also sad as a Kentucky fan because we were just starting to find our groove here as the season was winding down. I fill that we had as good a shot as anyone in the tournament. We will never get to know and we will never get to see the guys play together again. I hope some of them come back, but I know that so many of them will head off to the NBA. At least we won the regular season SEC Championship. We also had an epic comeback in our final regular season game against Florida. |
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| One of my patients recommended this book to me, someone who actually has lived this nightmare. I mentioned it to my family and my sister got me it. This is the story of a young man who was diagnosed with cancer and the trials and difficulty that ensued. Most of you probably know about him when ESPN ran a story about him because he predicted that Purdue would defeat Ohio State. Spoiler Purdue destroyed an undefeated Ohio State. It was a magical moment. It was really eye opening for me because a lot of times my patients at work have no desire to talk about the pain and suffering that goes on behind the scenes, that most of us would never know unless you took care of someone going through this. The book is written from different viewpoints along the way. Tyler and both of his parents are the main story tellers. Through the entire book it talks so much about God and how much God has been with him through it all. Tyler kept asking God for just one more opportunity in this world to share the good news of Jesus. I came away truly inspired. Through battling his cancer he was still able to give all glory to God. I can't wait to finally get to meet him in Heaven someday. We would have lots to talk about. I would highly recommend this book. |
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| With COVID-19 risk they decided to cancel all schools for the foreseeable future. That meant that everyone became a home schooled child. Since our school district had never instituted NTI, or snow day work from home instructions, we were left with little ideas for the kids. Their teachers sent home ideas of reading for 30 minutes and then working on the computer programs they have access to from school. Well, that didn't take enough time so Jennifer came up with additional school work that we will be completing at the Heflin School. We have art, a daily journal entry, worksheets from a book that Jennifer got, and my favorite part of the the day, PE! I clearly am in charge of PE, even if it happens after I get home from work. Here are the kids hard at work. They even produced these pictures in art. Landon with the baby Yoda and Brinley with a unicorn. |
We have only had a couple of mishaps so far in homeschooling. Well, Jennifer has continued to work nights during this time and that has meant that the kids have been spending some time on their computers while Jennifer naps. Once during a nap Brinley decided that she was going to cook some Easy Mac. Not too big of an issue except Brinley forgot to put water in the container before she put it in the microwave. Jennifer woke up to the fire alarm going off, which I am sure was terrifying. Another time during Jennifer's nap time Brinley came and woke her up to ask what our zip code was. After further questioning Jennifer discovered that Brinley had got her credit card out and was going to try and purchase something on a game that she had been playing. Thankfully she didn't know that zip code. I had to have a big talk with her when I got home.
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| One of Brinley's worksheets had some basic addition problems in it. Jennifer and I do not understand common core principles and I actually think it is complete garbage. Brinley tried explaining it to me, but I insisted that I knew a way that was much faster and more time efficient. So one night I sat down with the kids and taught them old school mathematics. Landon loved it, but Brinley swore that her way was easier. I even started making problems up where the kids could add numbers in the millions. I would love to see how this is done with common core if anybody is willing to waste that much time and paper. |
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| Physical education for the night consisted of a long 2.4 mile walk. The kids usually hate taking walks with me so on this night I tried to make it into a game. On a previous walk I had asked Landon if he could navigate the back roads to his school. He missed one turn. So, I asked Brinley if she could get us to school. She did so awesome and got us there without any mistakes. She was so proud leading us and was confident the entire time. On the way back we decided to make up a story. We were all creators of the story and took turns adding parts. We were all on a journey when we came upon a cave filled with unicorns and sea turtles (which lead to a discussion on where sea turtles live and what makes the ocean salty) and then we came upon a milk waterfall where we stopped and had a drink. Next we fell down a mudslide and had to climb back up a ladder. When we got back to the top a unicorn granted us 3 magical wishes. Brinley wished for a real live bunny, Landon asked for food because he thought we were out in the wilderness with no food other than the milk waterfall, and I asked for a slide that went from my bedroom right into a pool. Landon then decided to change his to a bedroom slide into a pool too! After we got home we played some basketball and then called it a night. What a great day of PE! I even added in geography, science, and imaginative thinking. |
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| Another day at the house means more PE. We took a family bike ride and then came home and played more basketball. Landon did some pull ups on the goal and Brinley tried to do trick shots out of her window. She still hasn't hit one, yet! |
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| The last Home Depot kid's workshop was cancelled, but they allowed parents to come pick up the kits that had already been ordered. I stopped in and grabbed these binocular kits. I set up a little workshop in the basement and the kids got to work. They did a great job and now we just need to take them out to try and spot some birds in the neighborhood. |
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| With all the media talking about a shortage of mask and protective equipment Jennifer decided to try and make some masks for me. Just an FYI these mask will not protect from virus like COVID-19. They will however provide a safe barrier when trying to do a small procedure that needs to be sterile. Which just means that it keeps you from breathing onto the area being worked on. Many of my patients actually have masks similar to these that they wear when getting their ports accessed. |
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| Monday morning I got up early and headed to the grocery store. Not to gobble up toilet paper, but instead to get food so that we can keep our social distancing up. I thought it was awesome that Meijer thought about all those essential employees who have trouble getting to the stores now with restricted hours. They have opened up an hour early for service workers every Monday and Wednesday while this pandemic is still in effect. |
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| Another day, another physical education class. Today the kids taught me everything I wanted to know about 4 square and then a ton more. They taught me about little mini games that they also play. A lot of them made no sense to me, but I went along with it anyway. Not sure if these are rules they made up or if these are standard playground rules, but they had fun playing which is all that matters. |
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We had a family game night per Landon's request and they chose the game of Life. We went through all of life together. Both kids went to college, but neither of them wanted to go the route to have children. It broke my heart that I wasn't going to have any fictional grandchildren! I guess it made up for it that I ended up blessed with twins, triplets, and then an additional fictional baby in the game. Also I was kind of concerned with my children's financial future because both of them picked the risky road right before retirement.
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| Our outdoor activities today consisted of sidewalk chalk and swinging in the back yard. The kids also jumped on the trampoline for a while but I was too busy working in my garden. The weeds had overtaken the garden so I was just getting it prepared for the upcoming weeks when I will start to plant everything. This will be the first year that we still have canned goods from last seasons garden this late into the year. My father's day gifts sure took a beating out in the elements over the winter. Here was my UK one and it reminded me of this years season, only half finished! |
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| Jennifer got me probably the hardest puzzle that I have ever owned for my birthday. It was the picture that we used for last year's Christmas card. Great picture, but a field full of pine needles and lots of the same type of trees makes for a very difficult puzzle. I conned the kids into helping me. For every piece of the border that they found then they could cash that in for time on their computer.You can see in the bottom left picture that Landon got upset. It was because his sister found more border pieces than him. |
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| In order to keep my sanity I have made a point to get out of the house everyday and go for a run. I even got caught in a rainstorm and kept going because I promised myself 3 miles when I left the house. The times have been a little sporadic, but I am just glad to be outside. Being cooped up in the house all day with the kids can be quite the challenge. |
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| One of the surrounding counties started this thing called going on a bear hunt for all the kids who are trapped inside all day long with the quarantine. It caught on in our neighborhood and the kids think it is awesome. We have now gone on 2 different hunts. One night we just walked around the block and we saw 26 bears/stuffed animals in people's windows. |
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| Being home and not having to get up and rush to school has allowed us time in the morning to fix breakfast. Landon was the first one up this morning and decided that he wanted to make muffins. He read the instructions, turned on the oven to the correct temperature (I told him he is only allowed to do this with a parent), found the correct measuring cup, mixed and even put them into the tin. After he poured a couple into the tin then he said that it was too hard and he wanted me to finish them up. |
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| The kids have been obsessed with four square and we had been playing with a basketball. When I was out buying groceries I spotted this ball that was perfect for four square. I got them this little prize because playing four square has been one of their favorite things to do during the quarantine. |
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| Well, Brinley struck again. She tried to make some Easy Mac but again forgot to put the water in it. I would never recommend having Brinley make you a bowl. |
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| We were out playing basketball the other night and I jokingly put Landon up in the goal. I had done this once to my little cousin Morgan and she was terrified of me for a while because she thought I would do it again. I had no idea that Landon would react the way that he did. He completely lost it. So, I have now learned my lesson and I will never put another child into a basketball goal. |
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Since this whole quarantine started I have made a point to get in some form of physical activity which also helps my mental health as well. We don't have any races planned for this year as of now, but so many have been cancelled or rescheduled due to everything going on. When things have straightened out I want to be prepared for a race.
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| In order to get the kids out of the house Jennifer created a Bingo Scavenger Hunt. There was all kinds of objects and things that the kids had to find. We played a cover all so the kids had to find all 25 things. At first we thought that we made it too easy, but there was a couple things that gave us a hard time. We had trouble finding a cat and a turtle. Luckily the kids found a cat statue and then the kids both knew that around the corner from our house there is a concrete turtle in someone's garden. I was really surprised with the kid's ingenuity. One of the objects they had to find was a star. We have a couple houses in the subdivision with those metal star decorations. We didn't see any of them on the path we took, but both kids spotted a star on the American flag. I thought that was pretty smart on their part. |
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We also took a family bike ride to get in our family activity of the day. I am super proud of these two kids. They went on a 2.4 mile bike ride and didn't even complain at all. I only had to give them a couple pushes to help boost them up the hills. I can't wait for the day that the kids are out pedaling faster than me and I have to keep up with them. |
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| Landon has become obsessed with this little stuffed panda, which he calls Pan Pan. The little panda sits with him while he is doing his school work on the chromebook. Also he was caught reading with Landon and Brinley. Pan Pan even had a front row seat to see Landon eat his cereal. The panda even joined us for Sunday church on the TV while we watched from our bed. Landon can't get enough of his new best buddy Pan Pan. |
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| With us practicing social distancing and not getting out like our normal I decided that we should take some time to work on some much needed home improvements. For 10 years now we have had this vibrant red color in our kitchen. I felt that it was time for a change because I couldn't look at that red for another day. Red is my least favorite color because it makes me think of Louisville. Jennifer picked out this light bluish teal color. |
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| We liked the color in the kitchen so much and even had half a gallon left over so we decided to paint Jennifer and mine's bathroom. The kids said they wanted to help paint so I gave them a couple of lessons in how to use a paint roller. The bathroom turned out amazing. |
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While I was at work one day Jennifer and the kids painted the front door. They had a lot of fun and I think it turned out pretty awesome. It looks like our front door is a stained glassed window.
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| The kids have been pretty obsessed with the lite brite. Brinley was so excited to make this rainbow. I am just happy to see that smile! Sometimes she doesn't like to smile and her fake smile is awful. This is the look of pure joy in my little girl. |
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| On the last day of the month I needed to get one last run in. Well, it was rainy and cold outside so I decided to get on the treadmill. I pushed myself and ran my fastest 3 miles in forever. It felt so good to get one final run in this month. |
Well, March 2020 didn't go as planned for most everyone in the world. Our lives have been changed dramatically and most of us feel like we have no control over anything. Well, one thing that you do have control over is your attitude and your outlook. Maybe it is because of my relationship with my personal Lord and Savior, my God. With all the crazy going on in the world today I have peace that no matter what the outcome here on Earth I will spend eternity with God. I pray that all of you find a relationship with God. May all of your family and friends stay safe during these uncertain times. I hope you continue to smile, laugh and remember to love one another, even though it has not been the March we all expected with last second shots in the NCAA tournament or enjoying all the other things that spring brings. Although most people have been terrified or hating having the kids at home 24/7 and even homeschooling them. I am thankful for this added time around my family. A time to stop rushing from event to event that I normally keep us on. Sometimes I just need to slow down and enjoy the beautiful things that God has blessed me with right here in my home, Jennifer, Brinley, and Landon. I just hope that when the social distancing ends that I continue to remember that just spending time with my wife and kids is what makes me the happiest in the world. I hope you remember that which makes you happy and you continue even when the stress of work, school, and everyday life gets back to somewhat normal. Thanks for reading and God bless you all!