13 Years

Most people are not as lucky as myself. Some people go their whole lives without winning the lottery or that big prize in life. I am one of those lucky ones that was able to strike it rich 13 years ago today. Do you not remember seeing my picture in the paper holding up a big over-sized check. Well, that's because I won a different type of lottery, the spouse lottery.

Not many 15 year old kids are out searching for their lifelong soul mate, but that is exactly what I found in Jennifer Bolton. The story of how we started dating is neat and a story that you probably see less and less in today's society. Jennifer and I first met in the 5th grade when the school she was attending closed down and combined with my school, Livermore Elementary. However, I do not remember her at all (probably due to her shy personality). We went through middle school and our entire freshmen year of high school without interacting except for maybe a class or two occasionally. At best I could have told you her name, but probably not a single thing more than that.

The summer between freshmen and sophomore year in high school is when I truly fell in love with Jennifer. My little brother, McKinley told my parents that he didn't want to play baseball when they were having tryouts in Livermore. However, after the time passed to join he decided that he wanted to play. As it turns out the only place that said he could still join was in the neighboring town of Island. You might ask what does McKinley playing baseball have to do with anything, especially Jennifer and myself. Well, it just so happens that a family from Island, the Bolton's, took care of the Island ballpark. Bobby took care of the fields as well as coaching Jennifer's two youngest sisters softball team. While Kara and Jennifer ran the concession stand (I am sure this was against Jennifer's will since she didn't like sports or interacting with people - two things which she had to confront at the concession stand). I was in a similar situation. I love sports, but not so much as a spectator and especially not my little brother's team, but I was forced to attend his games early on that summer.

Over the summer I began to really enjoy going to the games and I really had my eye on Jennifer (My parents thought it was weird that I was interested in seeing McKinley play baseball). My goal was to get her to talk to me and my other goal was to possibly, if lucky enough, go on a date or school dance with her. However, I thought that this was truly a far fetched idea because she was gorgeous and I was me. I didn't really think I had a shot, but I just kept talking to her and praying for the best. Well, the summer ended and I thought that I had really missed my opportunity because now we would be going back to school where Jennifer could see that she had a lot more options than the guy who bothered her at the ballpark all summer long.

However, as luck would have it we had first period together. It was Coach Bowman's computer class. I was so excited to see her in class, but because we arrived at different times we were sitting on different sides of the classroom. So for the next week I would see her and talk with her. I was sure to find her during break and try to talk with her. I was trying to get her to get to class extremely early the next day and just take the person's seat that was sitting next to me in coach's class since we didn't have assigned seats. The next day Jennifer just didn't have the heart to "steal" someone's seat. I could have left things alone, but again I really liked her and I just couldn't give up, at least not yet. So, I just asked the guy that was sitting behind me in class, very nicely, if he didn't mind to switch seats with Jennifer and to my amazement he said he would. From then on every spare moment of class was spent talking to Jennifer and trying to get her to talk back to me.

Football homecoming was approaching and I couldn't get the nerve to ask Jennifer to the dance. I guess that I didn't want to mess up a good thing and I wasn't sure that she even liked me because I could barely get her to talk to me. However, about a week or two before the dance I finally got up the courage to ask her to the dance. To my surprise and answer to my prayers she actually said yes. I still wasn't sure if she liked me or if she was just too nice to say no. At some point I also asked for her phone number and we started talking every night after I got home from football practice.

The night of the dance arrived and of coarse I was playing in the football game, so I didn't get a chance to see her until after the game. She looked amazing! I gave her a corsage and we headed into the dance. Neither one of us were big into dancing, especially not any fast songs. We got our pictures made and then we danced together for the first time to Joe "I wanna know". In between slow songs we would just stand to the side of the dance area and chat. At the end of the night we were saying bye to everyone and I noticed that Jennifer hugged a couple of the other football players. I was devastated because I had been talking to her for a couple months now and I had never gotten a hug. I figured that our relationship was going to end up as just friends. My sister, Andrea drove us home that night and I walked Jennifer to her door and we said our goodbyes and I gave her a hug goodnight.

This also started the week of fall break so I thought that I wouldn't get to see her for another 10 days. Her family was planning a week long trip to French Lick, IN. It just so happens that her mother needed to come back for a photography class that she had signed up for. So, Jennifer called me and asked if I wanted to go to the movies with her while her mom went to the class. I quickly agreed to a second date. Since we were not able to drive we had to be dropped off at the movies. We went to Malco Theatre in Owensboro and saw Meet the Parents. Afterwards we rode back to McLean County and they dropped me off at my house and we said goodbye. I had planned on asking her to be my "girlfriend", but I could never find the words to say or when to say them.

The next morning I had football practice and I got up early to get ready. Something made me want to call Jennifer to talk. After the dance I thought we would just be friends and then when she asked me to the movies it let me know that maybe she did like me back. So I called Jennifer around 7:30 in the morning and I asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes! I was so excited, but it would be another 3 days before I would actually get to see her.

A few weeks later after a football game we took her home. I walked her to the door as usual, but this time I asked her for a kiss. She said yes and I couldn't have been any happier. We have been inseparable ever since. We have been together through almost all our big milestones in life together. Things haven't always been easy, but we have worked things out together and have always been each other's biggest supporter in whatever we were trying to do. We have now been together as a couple for 13 years, married for 6 and a half of those years and I couldn't be any happier. Like I said earlier, I won the lottery when I found Jennifer. Thanks for reading and God Bless!

As Paul Harvey would say "And here's the rest of the story". Jennifer told me this story later on after we have been dating for a while. It turns out that I wasn't the only person interested in Jennifer at the beginning of the our sophomore year. A day or two before I asked her to the homecoming dance, another guy in school asked her to the dance and she said that she wasn't going to the dance. She turned him down because she was hoping that I would ask her to the dance. I am glad that I didn't miss my chance!

Life with TWO!

Just over 16 months ago we were 1st time parents and were trying to adapt to our new lifestyle of little to no sleep and a little baby that ruled the house hold. No longer could any decisions be made without thinking first about how it would work with Brinley. Any task that needed to be done quickly turned into a full blown event. A simple trip to the grocery required a diaper bag filled with every imaginable item- like extra diapers, spare clothes, bibs, pacifier, back up pacifier, and of coarse enough milk to last the whole time. If we thought on the off chance that we would be doing anything else then even more things had to be packed like the breast pump and all 20 parts along with a cooler for the milk. So, we tried to limit trips out unless we felt it was truly worth packing all the stuff. It truly amazes me how much could be needed for such a little person.

Brinley loves her little brother!

The jury is still out if Landon feels the same!

After we found out about Landon we were both extremely nervous about what our future held. I was asking people with children that were born rather close together for any advice they might have for us. It was funny that about half the people didn't have many complaints (one friend even said she thought it was easier with two) yet others said they struggled for many years trying to care for two young children. This gave us hope and also struck some major fears.

The Thinker

A lot of this fear stemmed from the fact that Brinley was not a very good eater for the first 3 months. Brinley's feedings were a battle of endurance and most days she won because it was just so frustrating. This was especially hard because we both work with children and we just couldn't figure it out. It always seemed like she would eat good for us during the week and then as soon as normal business hours were over (doctors office closed) then she would refuse to eat. This prompted a few visits to the Twilight Clinic because we didn't know if something else could be wrong. In the end she had reflux and a little medicine fixed her right up.

Were we about to endure another 3 months of torture? Well, we were about to find out. This second pregnancy seemed like it flew by when the first took forever, when in fact Landon stayed in the womb 5 days longer than his sister. From the moment Landon has arrived, in dramatic fashion, he has been nothing but a little blessing. He has been a good eater, sleeps decent (best when held) and doesn't cry nearly as much as what I remember Brinley did. Two months into our journey with two children and I would say that it has definitely been easier the second time around. (ASK me again in a few months!)

Landon loves to be held while sleeping, but Brinley doesn't want to miss out either.

Mommy and the kiddos!

Me and my little mini me!

However, for any of you rushing out there to have almost "Irish twins" you need to realize that we are in a completely different occupational situation than most. With Jennifer and I both being nurses at the hospital we don't work normal 8-5 jobs. In fact, after Brinley was born we both took new positions with the hospital to ensure that one of us could be at home with her at all times. We didn't have any family here in Lexington at the time that could watch her and there are not day cares open during night shift. So, with our new jobs we both only work 2 days a week and we are never scheduled at the same time, therefore leaving 3 days off a week to spend as a family.

After coming home from the hospital with Landon we kind of split child duties between the two kids. I was able to take 6 weeks off to stay at home and spend time bonding with my new son. Since Landon was spending a lot of time breastfeeding, Jennifer would primarily take care of him and I would run around and take care of Brinley. This worked great for me because Brinley plays most of the day and she can now drink and eat by herself as well as sleeps about 12 hours a night. Jennifer however drew the short straw and was left getting up in the middle of the night to feed Landon. However, things are about to really change because Jennifer's nine weeks of maternity leave are over tonight and I will be in charge of both little ones for 12 hours while mommy is at work. I will be interested to see how things go, because for the past 8 weeks I have been sleeping through every time that Landon wakes up to feed at night. (Jennifer swears that I slept through Brinley's screams when she was at work because she always slept through the night for me and never for her.) Luckily my parents were coming to visit this weekend, so I have one more weekend until I get my real solo test with both kids.

Our beautiful little kiddos!

So, with all the stuff that we packed with just Brinley then you would naturally think that we have twice as much to gather up every time we head out. That would be an incorrect statement because in fact I think we pack even less now. The only real issue when heading out anywhere is if you have to go out by yourself. This is difficult because now you are outnumbered and it seems like they both are fighting for your attention. If Landon gets upset and you go to pick him up, then Brinley at that precise moment wants nothing else in the world than to be held by you. I will tell you this - there is never a dull moment in this house hold and I am not sure when things might calm down.

Brinley always wants to be held when mommy is holding Landon. The moby wrap has been a lifesaver. Thanks Kasey for letting us borrow it!

I hope when we get our routine down I will have a little more free time to chronicle our adventures as a family of four. Jennifer and I couldn't be more happy with the two wonderful blessings that we have been given the opportunity to raise. Brinley and Landon are two of the most precious gifts that I have been given and I can't wait to see them grow. Thanks for reading and God Bless!

Our little family!

Landon's Arrival

Our son is just over two weeks old and I can hardly believe it! The past two weeks have been a whirlwind adventure and Jennifer and I have never been happier. I haven't been doing as well with documenting everything that has been going on during the pregnancy, but I am going to try and get back on track. Landon's journey started 9 months ago and we finally got to meet him on his exact due date of July 14, 2013. How Landon arrived is a little bit more of an interesting story.

I was at the hospital working a night shift when I had a patient that was running a fever. The patient didn't have an order for Tylenol, so I paged the resident to get the order put into the computer. Just a few minutes after I finished the page the phone rang so I picked it up and introduced myself to the "resident". The "resident" said this is Jennifer and I was like ok, and started to tell about them about my patient with the temperature when the person on the phone cut me off mid-sentence and said "This is Jennifer, your wife!" It took me a second to realize, but then Jennifer started to inform me that she had been having contractions since about 1 o'clock in the morning and she said that they were starting to hurt. It was now 5 o'clock and the contractions were every 2 minutes and more painful than they had been earlier in the week when the doctors in triage at the hospital sent her home. So, my heart began to race and I informed my co-workers about the news and I quickly gave report about my 3 patients to another nurse then headed for the car to go get Jennifer.

There were not many people out at 5 o'clock am on a Sunday morning so I broke a few driving rules on the way home. Upon my arrival I was greeted at the door by my parents. (They had come up a few days before when we thought we were going to be admitted to the hospital and had just been staying until Landon's arrival since they live 3 hours away.) I walked upstairs to find Jennifer standing in the living room and upon seeing her she didn't seem to be in any distress. I jumped in the shower and proceeded to get ready for our trip to the hospital. I shaved and then began brushing my teeth when Jennifer came into the bathroom and asked for me to hurry up. I quickly finished my teeth and then went to give Brinley a little kiss and whispered to her that the next time we saw her she would have a little baby brother. Then I gathered up the last of our things and we headed out to the car.

There were a few more vehicles out on the road so I was more hesitant to break any laws. It always seems to happen that when you are in a rush that you hit almost every stop light and that they take twice as long to turn green again. Well this is exactly how I felt and I know that Jennifer had to be even more frustrated. Now that I was actually around Jennifer during one of her contractions I saw that she was truly in a lot of pain. I kept trying to reassure her and I offered up my hand for her to squeeze. We made it to the hospital and Jennifer said that she wanted to walk in. However, after we began the walk she was still having frequent contractions so we had to stop multiple times in order for the pain to subside.

In our triage room. Jennifer was nice enough to smile for a picture in between contractions.

We arrived to triage around 6 am and filled out the paperwork and I knew from our previous experience that they weren't going to just rush us on back to a room. However, we were really not prepared for what the next 3 hours had in store for us. Around 6:15 we were placed into a small curtained room and they told Jennifer to change into a gown and they would be back to check on us. Nothing seemed to be going like it had been when we arrived just last year with Brinley. Apparently the triage area was full of women that were all in labor and the computer in our space didn't work. They did hook Jennifer up to the monitor to check on baby Landon. During this time that we were waiting Jennifer was in a lot of pain and in between one of her contractions we took a minute to say a prayer to watch over Jennifer and Landon during this delivery. The Anesthesia resident, who was a friend of mine stopped by and said the he would come see us as soon as we got settled into our room. It then turned into shift change and the next shifts nurses and doctors arrived and one of the doctors came to speak to us and asked a few questions and then said they were going to check and see how far Jennifer was dilated. Upon examination she discovered that Jennifer was 7 cm. This really got the ball rolling.
The charge nurse arrived with a wheelchair and promptly took us to our room. It was pretty neat because it was the same exact room that Brinley was born in. Our nurse Sandy asked us all the preliminary questions and helped start and IV and get some fluids in Jennifer (who was dehydrated). At this point I was really hurting for Jennifer because I had never before seen her in this much pain. I was holding her hands and leaning on the bed with my head next to her's trying to keep her calm and helping remind her to breathe when the contractions came. Jennifer even hurt so much that she asked Sandy for some pain medicine and she informed her that it was too late for any pain medicine. I am not sure if I just misunderstood or what, but I took this to mean that Jennifer was not going to get an epidural at all. If contractions were this bad with no pain meds then I could hardly imagine what it would be like during the actual delivery if she didn't get an epidural. Thankfully I just didn't understand and around 8:15 they came and placed an epidural. The epidural was done very quickly and efficiently and Jennifer began to get immediate relief from the medicine. After the epidural took effect I joked that next year when we came in we would know the whole procedure. Nurse Sandy told Jennifer she could slap me if she wanted to, but she didn't.

Now it just looked like a waiting game. We had our first visitors - Jennifer's mother Kara and her husband Chris, although they didn't get to stay long. About 25-30 minutes after the epidural was placed Landon's heart rate began to start dropping off and on. (Jennifer and I didn't get too worried because Brinley had done the same thing) However, Dr. Jackson came in to see us because she wanted to further investigate what she had seen on the monitors outside the room. There was also some difficulty getting a blood pressure on Jennifer during this time and the ones that they did get were recording low. To try and help with the drop in Landon's heart rate they asked Jennifer to get on her elbows and knees. Not such an easy task for a pregnant lady, let alone one who couldn't feel her legs, but we were able to help get her in the position. This apparently didn't fix the problem so Dr. Jackson informed us that in order to get a more accurate idea of what was happening with Landon they would like to break Jennifer's water and place a scalp electrode to be able to better see if his heart rate was really dropping or if it was machine error. About a minute after the electrode was placed they made the decision that Landon was indeed in distress and that we were going to the Operating Room for an emergency C-Section.

This is when about 10 people rushed into the room and everyone started doing their specific task. She got a shot of terbutiline which was to stop contractions from one nurse. Then we flipped Jennifer back over to her back and she was then asked to drink a cup full of medicine to decrease stomach acidity in case she aspirated during surgery. Everything was going super fast and I had no time to process what was really happening. We walked out of our room at 8:50 am and headed towards the OR. They informed me that someone would be there to get me and that I would have to change into some scrubs. So there I was ALONE with no one around and I couldn't even be next to Jennifer to help comfort her in this very scary time. The only thing I knew to do was to say a prayer to help my wife and son during this difficult time. Then I texted our families to let them know of the sudden change in events and I asked friends and family to say a quick prayer via Facebook. What seemed like an eternity (probably real time was less than 2 minutes) I stood there anxiously waiting for someone to come and give me my scrubs. The next thing I saw was a nurse run out of the OR and head into a supply closet. In my head I was even more nervous because I started thinking what could they possibly not have in there that they needed. Instead the lady came out and opened the door and handed me a mask and hat and said to hurry up that Jennifer was going to try and push little Landon out. This made absolutely no sense to me, but I got right up next to Jennifer and started coaching her into every push. Everybody was busy doing things to prep for the C-section and Jennifer was left trying to hold her own legs up so I stepped in and grabbed her left leg to help position her best to help Landon out. On the fourth push little Landon made his arrival at 8:55 am on July 14, 2013.

Our little man in the resuscitation room.

Landon had been in some distress and initially wasn't making any noise after he came out. They cut his umbilical cord and suctioned his nose and mouth out and then whisked him away to a resuscitation room. Just a few seconds later we hear Landon belt out his first cry. I went to check on Landon and to take a picture to come back and show Jennifer just in case he had to be taken somewhere else. This room was filled with many people Jennifer and I knew from work. They were all congratulating me as I got to finally see my son for the first time. I snapped a couple pictures on my phone and made a video and then headed back to show Jennifer. Five minutes after Landon was born he was brought back to Jennifer so that she could meet him. We were both overcome with emotion after all that had transpired in the last 10 minutes and seeing you in her arms was so amazing. At that moment I could not have been any happier because God had blessed me with 2 healthy children and an amazing wife.

My wife is amazing! She pushed Landon out before they could start a c-section! My little man is here!

This is one of my favorite pictures. This was just seconds after they placed Landon in her arms for the first time.

While the doctors were finishing up I started looking around the OR and I realized that I had been in this very room before and had a whole different experience that I will tell you about another day. After getting Jennifer off the OR table and back into her hospital bed we were taken back to our room. Jennifer got to spend an hour of time with Landon for skin to skin time, aka kangaroo care.

    

This picture was taken during kangaroo time. I know this because Landon pooped on mommy and she had to change gowns. You wouldn't know from this picture all the trouble she had gone through just an hour before. 

Then Landon was weighed, measured and given his first shots. Landon Michael Heflin weighed 7 pounds 7 ounces and measured in at 19 inches long. That made him 11 ounces bigger, but 1/2 an inch shorter than Brinley. (At our first doctor's appointment at 4 days old he measured 20 and 1/2 inches, so either he didn't get stretched fully for the initial measurement or the little guy will out grow me by the age of 2!) After shots I got to hold Landon for a little while before the rest of our family started to come back.

Me and my little mini me!

Our first visitors to come back were my parents and Big Sister Brinley. Brinley wasn't really impressed at all with Landon, but she did enjoy some of her mother's fruit plate.

Our first family photo!

It didn't take long for her to warm up to him.

We had many more family come back for a visit and every one was really excited to meet baby Landon. In fact in all of the excitement I forgot to tell my family that Jennifer didn't have the C-section. They were really shocked when I told them the rest of the story. In fact, I was actually getting to hear for the first time what happened during those few minutes while I was waiting outside the OR. It turns out that after they got Jennifer on the OR table one of the other doctors mentioned to Dr. Jackson to do a quick check and it just so happened that Jennifer was fully dilated and that they changed their minds and decided to let her try and push Landon out. This was also where I found out that the vacuum was used to help speed up the process. I guess I had been too focused on Jennifer to even notice. Apparently nurse Sandy also was adamant that I be in the room and that is why the nurse ran out to get me. She kept saying "Jordan will never forgive me if he isn't in here! Somebody go get Jordan!" We can't thank all the doctors and nurses that really made an extremely stressful time run smoothly and effectively like a well oiled machine. 

Jennifer and I couldn't be happier with both Brinley and Landon in our lives. They are truly little blessings and we can't wait to see them grow up, but not too fast! Thanks for reading and God Bless!

Monthly Pictures

Our little lady has grown so much over the past year. Sometimes you don't realize how much a person, especially a baby, changes over a years time when you see them everyday. I happened to be looking at these pictures which we have on a wall in our living room and it was amazing to me.

 I know that this past year has flown by and things don't look like they will be slowing down any time soon at our household with Landon's arrival coming soon. My crafty wife has already turned all the onesies that Brinley wore into outfits for Landon so you might be seeing some of these again in the next few months. Thanks for reading and God Bless!

Honeymoon Adventures

A couple weeks ago was our 6th wedding anniversary I have thought a lot about our wedding day (which you can read about here.) This also got me thinking that just six years ago we were in the Bahamas on our first vacation as a married couple, aka our honeymoon. We had an unforgettable trip and this gave us a little taste of the travel bug, which is something that we both really enjoy. After our wedding we headed off to Nashville  for the night so that we could catch our early morning flight. This was actually a first for me because I had never flown in my entire life. I was a little scared during the takeoff, but then I did what I do best and I took a nap. We had a connection in Charlotte and then jumped on another plane that took us to the Bahamas. This is where our journey really began.

A little background for you - we were both 22 year old college students, who were newly married and on our honeymoon, with no jobs, some money, on our first trip together, and it was the first time either of us had been outside the United States (other than crossing the border and then coming right back). So, needless to say, we really didn't have a clue what we were getting into when we got off that plane. Hey, but who needs a clue when you are in LOVE.

After we got out of the airport we got a taxi to take us to our hotel. This is where paranoia set in for me. We were in a strange country, in a stranger's car, and having no earthly idea where he was taking us except that I asked him to take us to our hotel. Did I mention that this was also my first taxi ride. It didn't make things any better for me that when we got in and tried to put our seat belts on that Jennifer's was broken, so I rigged it up by tying it around my seat belt and holding onto it myself. I was also quite nervous because in the Bahamas they drive on the opposite side of the road, which was another first for me. Once arriving at the hotel we were informed that our room would not be ready for a couple more hours, so we grabbed a seat and waited for our room to finish getting cleaned.

The hotel room left much to be desired from the pictures we had seen on the internet, but the real concern for us came that the air conditioning unit was missing. We didn't really care all that much except for the fact that there was a hole in the wall that was clearly for a air conditioner. We ended up stuffing blankets and towels in it at night to decrease the amount of critters that might try to enter our room. After unpacking, we decided to head out and explore around the hotel. We walked down to the beach that was right out in front of our hotel. However, once again it was not everything that we had been expecting. There were no nice sandy beaches, instead we had a beach that was full of rocks and you could not swim due to the excessive amount of rocks and inability to avoid them.

We made our way down to a local restaurant, in which we were one of about 3 couples eating. Well, Jennifer thought she was playing it safe by ordering the fish and I was risky by trying something new, conch fritters. Turns out that I really liked the conch and Jennifer barely touched her fish because it was looking at her, literally looking at her. Jennifer unknowingly had ordered a whole fried fish and she didn't want to eat it after seeing the eyes. So, the first night of our honeymoon started out with a scary car ride, rocky beach, unappetizing meal and a non air conditioned room. So, it seemed like this week in "paradise" could only get better or that this was the beginnings of one of the worst honeymoons ever.

Our trip definitely got better, but the Bahamas still had a few surprises along the way for us. One problem that came about was our inability to rent a car. Apparently you are only allowed to rent a vehicle if you are over 25 years of age and of course we were only 22. So, after our scary taxi ride we decided that walking might just be our best bet. We talked around and found out where the nice beaches were located and decided that we would take a day journey over to Paradise Island to spend the day on the beach. The good beach was located on a smaller island so we took a boat ferry across to the island. After arriving at the island where the resort Atlantis is located we decided to grab a bite to eat. After our trouble with local fare we decided to try something more familiar and stopped at a Johnny Rockets. After lunch we headed for the beach and made ourselves comfortable before getting in.

Inside Atlantis at their aquarium.

The Atlantis Resort - If we ever go back to the Bahamas we will definitely stay here.

My beautiful wife on the nice sandy beach!

A torrential downpour ended our day at the beach a little early. So we decided to make our way back to our hotel. While hiding out in a shop for the rain to stop we saw the bridge across to our side of the island and decided that it would be okay to journey across on foot. The bridge looked shorter than it really was and the sun decided that it would shine brightest after the rain. We got to the other side and Jennifer said she wasn't feeling well. So we quickly found some shade in a small park and decided to rest until Jennifer felt better. Jennifer still felt sick and she actually puked in the park. While my wife was sitting there throwing up I glanced around and I noticed a group of homeless men watching this event. I could only think to myself of the vows that we had said just a few days ago - in sickness and health. On that note, I reached down to help hold her hair back and helped wipe her face off. Jennifer felt much better after this and I gave her a bit to drink and then we headed back on our way. We stopped by a landmark which is called the Queen's Staircase.

Just enjoying the beautiful day and holding this rock up

Queen's Staircase - 65 steps to the top.

At the top of the Queen's Staircase was a military fort. It was a great view of the island.

We decided to call it a day and headed back to the hotel to rest up. The next day we had our most exciting day planned. We signed up for a snorkeling adventure and the company came and picked us up at our hotel. Being out on the boat and snorkeling to see the underwater wildlife was amazing. We were able to see many different fish and the coral reefs were amazing to see. We snorkeled at 3 different spots and the last proved to be one of the craziest things we have ever done. We got in the water with sharks - and if that isn't bad enough we didn't even have any barrier between us. I just wish that we had bought our nice underwater camera so that the pictures would somewhat do this adventure justice, but instead we only had a disposable one at the time. 

The happy couple on their first snorkeling adventure.

When we got to the dive site to swim with the sharks they placed this cage, which you can see in the picture above, that was full of fish heads down in the water. Then they told us to all get in the water. As we were filing off the worker said to Jennifer that they loved the color red (Jennifer's swim suit was red) and this freaked her out even more. We got in and snapped some pictures and then they told us to all get out. After making sure everyone was out they warned us that the sharks were about to be very upset and the sharks would bite at anything that touched the water. Then they pulled the cage with fish heads out of the water and the sharks came up and circled the boat. The workers then rewarded the sharks with the fish heads from the cage.

The sharks coming up to eat.

The ride home proved to be a trying time for us. The driver was calling out the names of hotels and you had to let him know which one you were staying at so he could drop you off. I was exhausted and nodded off to sleep and Jennifer stayed awake to listen for our hotel. For those of you that don't know Jennifer- she is on the shy side especially around people she doesn't know well. Well, she wasn't sure if she heard the driver call out our hotel name or not because of his pronunciation but figured that since people got on the bus at our hotel with us that it would at least stop to let them out. It didn't. She woke me up after we had passed by our hotel and informed me what happened. Not sure if my paranoia set in again, but I was not a very nice person and we actually had our first little fight as a married couple in that bus in the Bahamas. I was being a jerk and told her that she had to correct her own mistake and that she had to go tell the driver. After a few more minutes thinking about it she went to the front of the bus and informed the driver that he had passed our stop a few miles ago. In the end everything worked out and I got to see that Jennifer would step out of her comfort zone for me. (Jennifer reminded me just how mad that driver was that day) 

Another adventure we had while in Nassau was visiting the Straw Market. This was a huge flea market where the locals tried to sell all kinds of souvenirs. We spent a couple hours walking up and down the aisle looking for the perfect gifts for ourselves and something to get our family members. Jennifer and I ended up getting a wooden sculpture of a man and women that closely resembled a wooden sculpture that we got in New Orleans after we got engaged.

Overall, this was not our favorite vacation that we have taken together, but writing this blog post has made me really appreciate how far we have come in our relationship. Jennifer and I started dating when we were 15 years old and got married when we were still just kids at 22 years old. We have been through some rough times, but the one thing that stays constant is our love for one another. We have been a couple for almost 13 years and I love her more each day. I am happy to call her my best friend and the best wife a man could ask for. I'm an extremely lucky man to have her in my life and I can't wait to spend many more anniversaries with her. Thanks for reading and God Bless!

Landon's Room is finished!

Landon will be arriving soon and Jennifer has been working really hard on completing his room with all of her craft projects. She finished it yesterday and it could not be any more perfect for our little man. Today marks exactly 1 month left until Landon's due date, which is July 14th. This pregnancy has seemed to fly by even faster than with Brinley and it is mostly because we have been kept super busy with taking care of our little lady. I know that this pregnancy has been difficult and tiring for Jennifer because it is hard to take care of a infant who is turning into a toddler all while being pregnant and feeling miserable at times. Not until talking with a friend the other day did it really hit home for me, but I just happened to figure out that Jennifer has been pregnant for 18 of the last 24 months. It makes Landon's room even more amazing that she was able to make almost all of the decorations. Here are the pictures of Landon's jungle themed room, with a little touch of sports for our little guy.

Door leading into Landon's room. Hand painted by Jennifer. This is the only sports that I could get in the room for now.

Back of the door painting by Jennifer.

Jennifer loves her cricut machine and all the projects that it allows her to do and how quickly she can cut out her different creations.

Doors to Landon's balcony.

Hand painted letters by Jennifer with the giraffe print.

Landon's wall decals with some jungle animals. 

Looking at the rest of Landon's room from the decal wall.

Mobile that Jennifer made to be above the rocker.

Nook bedroom area with chevron wall painted by Jennifer. This was done one night after I went to sleep and she didn't tell me she was going to do it. When she gets her mind set on something she doesn't want to stop until she is done.

Painting done by Jennifer that is similar to Landon's bedding. 

See You Later Alligator

Owl Always Love You

Don't Worry Bee Happy

Monkey Business

Closet and changing area.

Blocks made by Jennifer.

This adequately will describe our house in a few weeks.

Changing area with his comforter on the wall.

As you can see from all the pictures that Jennifer has been a very busy lady. We can't wait until little Landon Michael Heflin makes his arrival. A lot of people have asked me lately what Brinley thinks about having a little brother. I find this funny when they ask because she is clueless to all of it. She is just happy to play, eat and walk around all day long. So we are very interested to see what will happen when she actually gets to meet Landon and what her reaction will be in the following weeks when she isn't always the center of attention. I am very lucky to have a job in which I am allowed time off to spend with my family. Jennifer will be taking off about 8 weeks and I will be spending 4 weeks at home in order to bond as a family of 4. We are extremely excited and scared/nervous all at the same time about what our future will hold once Landon arrives. Although it hasn't been that long ago since we brought Brinley home, I don't remember all the sleepless nights, crying and all the feeding and changing diapers that is involved with a newborn. I just know that Brinley was a pretty good child and we can only hope that Landon is too. We would appreciate all your prayers as we finish all the last minute preparation and after our son arrives. Thanks for reading and God Bless!